בס״ד
אבות ב:ד
He used to teach:
Do His will as if it were your own, so that He can make your will His own;
Abandon your own will in favor of His, so that the will of others may be abandoned in favor of your own.
Hillel says:
Do not separate yourself from the community; do not be overconfident until the day you die;
Do not judge your friend until you experience his situation;
Do not say things that shouldn’t be heard, for they will eventually be known;
And do not say, “When I have time I’ll learn” — for you may not have time.
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הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר,
עֲשֵׂה רְצוֹנוֹ כִרְצוֹנְךָ, כְּדֵי שֶׁיַּעֲשֶׂה רְצוֹנְךָ כִרְצוֹנוֹ.
בַּטֵּל רְצוֹנְךָ מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנוֹ, כְּדֵי שֶׁיְּבַטֵּל רְצוֹן אֲחֵרִים מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנֶךָ.
הִלֵּל אוֹמֵר,
אַל תִּפְרֹשׁ מִן הַצִּבּוּר, וְאַל תַּאֲמִין בְּעַצְמְךָ עַד יוֹם מוֹתְךָ,
וְאַל תָּדִין אֶת חֲבֵרְךָ עַד שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ לִמְקוֹמוֹ,
וְאַל תֹּאמַר דָּבָר שֶׁאִי אֶפְשָׁר לִשְׁמֹעַ, שֶׁסּוֹפוֹ לְהִשָּׁמַע.
וְאַל תֹּאמַר לִכְשֶׁאִפָּנֶה אֶשְׁנֶה, שֶׁמָּא לֹא תִפָּנֶה:
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The first part of the mishnah concludes the words of Rabban Gamliel III. The second part begins a new section, on the teachings of Hillel, that continues through Avos 2:7. But which Hillel is it?
It may seem obvious that the mishnah is speaking about Hillel the Elder (1:12-15). But some hand-written copies of the Mishnah from the Middle Ages refer here to “Rabbi Hillel” a grandson of Rabbi, who was Nasi around the year 300. Rabbi Yom Tov Heller, in his mishnah commentary, Tosfos Yom Tov, believes that the reference to “Rabbi Hillel” is a mistake. An ancient copyist of the Mishnah — let’s call him “Reb Ploni” — was disturbed to find Hillel (who died about the year 20) following Rabban Gamliel (who died around 250) in the chain of tradition. So Reb Ploni “improved” his version by making it refer to the more recent Rabbi Hillel.
To make things more confusing, the versions of the Mishnah used by Rambam, Midrash Shmuel and others list Hillel’s teaching as a separate mishnah with its own number. But if you look in the usual printed copies of the Mishnah, you’ll find Hillel’s teaching included here as I’ve presented it.
These sorts of differences are pretty common throughout the Mishnah and Talmud. They remind us that, even though the Oral Torah of the Sages comes from Sinai, the medieval manuscripts that serve as the basis of the printed versions in our modern books are often affected by human frailty. The oldest hand-copied versions of the Mishnah probably listed Rabban Gamliel’s and Hillel’s statements together. Reb Ploni thought this was confusing because it offended his sense of history. So he copied “Rabbi Hillel” into his version. Another copyist — ok, “Reb Almoni” — was confused (it is confusing!) to find teachings of Rabban Gamliel and Hillel in the same mishnah. So he separated them. Both versions continued to be passed down by later copyists. And later printers of the Mishnah preserved them. Go figure!
Now we can focus on what these teachings mean! Rabban Gamliel’s advice about submitting our private desires to the will of HaShem is a perfect summary of all of his teachings. He has tried to point out the importance of seeing through what is obvious or most immediately in front of our noses. Well, what is more immediately in front of our noses than our own desires? In many ways the whole history of idolatry is about people worshipping their own desires and mistaking them for the will of HaShem. Rabban Gamliel teaches us to be very suspicious of our own desires and to measure them against the standards set before us in the Written and Oral Torah. In this way our life as Jews is a perpetual attempt to retrain our desires so that we ultimately will for ourselves the pattern of life that the Torah holds out as a goal. The result will be the eventual closure of the yawning gap between ourselves and HaShem.
But if this is Rabban Gamliel’s point, the conclusion of his statement seems a bit odd. Why should we do HaShem’s will so he will nullify the will of others? One common interpretation is that in return for our loyalty to Him, HaShem will overturn the desires of our enemies. Perhaps, but this doesn’t seem to be in the spirit of this particular teaching. Rabbi Ovadiah of Bertinora offers a good solution: “I have heard that the phrase ‘the will of others’ is actually a euphemism designed to protect HaShem’s honor. The real point is that we hope that He will nullify His own will.” That is: when we successfully transform ourselves into expressions of Torah, the apparent gap between our own desires and those of HaShem is overcome.
The mishnah now returns us to the wisdom of Hillel the Elder. He offers five “thou shalt nots” designed to shape our attitudes towards ourselves, to other people, and to HaShem.
First: we must not deny our social responsibilities. The Tiferes Yiroel finds 5 aspects of this teaching and I’ll try to summarize them: 1. don’t become alienated from communal teachers; 2. don’t be apathetic about decisions the community must face; 3. don’t be numb to communal tragedies;4. don’t exclude the needs of others from your personal prayers; 5. if you are a communal leader, don’t act like you’re some kind of royalty!
Second: we can never rest on our laurels. As Rabbi Yisrael Salanter, the founder of the Mussar movement taught, the greatest danger for “frum” Jews is the assumption that being “frum” will protect you from sin. The very desire to be “frum” can be a sign of self-importance, and the lifestyle of Frumkeit often leads to self-satisfaction and criticism of the ways of other Jews. The Talmud’s greatest example of smug piety is that of Yohanan the Kohen Gadol, who served as High Priest for 80 years, yet ended his days as a Tzedoki (Sadducee), denying the Torah of the Sages (Berakhos 29a).
Third: don’t pass judgement on anyone unless you yourself have done a better job in the same situation. Who hasn’t violated this precept of Hillel? The Midrash Shmuel finds a deep connection between this teaching and the one we’ve just learned. He sees Hillel’s teaching as an allusion to spiritual arrogance: “Don’t judge your friend as a sinner who is destined for Gehinnom, for perhaps he has already done teshuvah prior to his death. Then, when you ‘experience his situation’ at the time of your own death, you might find him numbered among the Tzaddikim, while you are too far away even to hear kiddush !”
Fourth: avoid saying anything in private that you wouldn’t want to be responsible for in public. As the Tiferes Yisroel puts it: “The walls have ears, and the birds of the air will carry the voice!” We commonly say foolish or cruel things about people we really care about as a way of ventilating our feelings. The problem is that sometimes our comments find their way to those people we spoke about, often in crueler form than we meant them. The result is shame, pain, and often lost love. Relationships of love are built on trust; once we can no longer trust those we love to protect our dignity, love itself begins to die. And we are all the losers.
Fifth: don’t upset the balance between Torah-study and the pressures of derech eretz. We need both, but if you keep putting off your study of Torah for a convenient time, you’ll never find the time. The pressure of the material world takes on an absolute reality and turns Torah into a “hobby.” But Torah is not our hobby; it is the source of our life. Regular immersion in a pattern of Torah study is the key to our ability to see past the short term pressures of life and see our long term lives from HaShem’s point of view. This point of Hillel’s is probably what inspired the teaching of Rabban Gamliel at Avos 2:2.
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